My two Ah girl
For quite sometime, I have been obeserving the girls' behaviour. My mom told me children 三岁定性. So I quite concern my children turn out a good personality & happy person.
Abella used to be serious & introvert. She was not expressive, seldom smile. Im so worried she turn into a melancholy child. But eversince she recovered from a fever two months ago, she has become more cheerful, more smile on the face and sometimes even do funny act. She talks alot too, listen and express what she wants. Im so glad she's more interacting & fun now.
However, the used to be cheerful & talkative Clarabelle has become temperamental instead. She is always moody, selective listening and dont speak up. Thought she is still very funny, always do silly act, playful, always want to have fun and dont bother much things.
Last night, Abella took the school bag I've left on the table despite I told her not to. Clarabelle being embolden, took another bag, both happily playing with it. Then the daddy happen to pass by, quickly they placed back the bag. When daddy walked off, Clarabelle : " Oh! No more..." (puzzle? she meant daddy walk off)she took the bag again, So did Abella. So daring huh? Dont put mommy in the eyes??! So I called the magical words, "DADDY!!!" Immediately, their face turn green (esp Clara), quickly they putted back the bags.
The daddy received my sos, came asking what's happening. The daddy gave them a good "briefing" after listened to my complained and walked off. Abella accepted our explaination and went off playing again but Clarabelle instead, display her temper over her unsatifaction. She lay herself flat on the floor. This is her trademark. Even Abella knows. Whenever she lay flat on the floor, she is angry with something.
The loving Abella saw moody Clarabelle, came telling me: " Mommy, Clarabelle is sad..." I acknowledge Abella but I have to ignore Clara cos I know she wants to catch my attention. I dont give in either as I want her to learn to accept discipline and explaination. By displaying such attitute on her unsatifaction will not help her any.
After sometime, she realise I dont budge. She stand up mumbling she wants to sleep and tried hopping onto the bicycle. Abella saw, quickly went to assist her. After she got seated, she still displayed a unhappy face then closed her eyes pretending to sleep. Sweet Abella took the front seat and offer to fetch her home...(puzzle? that's their kid's talk) She wants to cheer her up : " Clarabelle we have reached! Are you happy?" Clara finally smile and cheered "Happy!" but very soon she turned moody again. Abella continue to pacify her: " clarabelle dont be sad huh? Be happy ok?" but Clarabelle just dont budge. Dishearted Abella told me : "Mommy, Clarabelle dont want to be happy... she wants to be sad..."
Awwh... Abella is such a love... so sensible with a heart of empathy...
As for Clarabelle, most probably we had to find another approach to correct her character. Maybe by soft approach or reverse psychology, I have to try it out very soon...
Abella used to be serious & introvert. She was not expressive, seldom smile. Im so worried she turn into a melancholy child. But eversince she recovered from a fever two months ago, she has become more cheerful, more smile on the face and sometimes even do funny act. She talks alot too, listen and express what she wants. Im so glad she's more interacting & fun now.
However, the used to be cheerful & talkative Clarabelle has become temperamental instead. She is always moody, selective listening and dont speak up. Thought she is still very funny, always do silly act, playful, always want to have fun and dont bother much things.
Last night, Abella took the school bag I've left on the table despite I told her not to. Clarabelle being embolden, took another bag, both happily playing with it. Then the daddy happen to pass by, quickly they placed back the bag. When daddy walked off, Clarabelle : " Oh! No more..." (puzzle? she meant daddy walk off)she took the bag again, So did Abella. So daring huh? Dont put mommy in the eyes??! So I called the magical words, "DADDY!!!" Immediately, their face turn green (esp Clara), quickly they putted back the bags.
The daddy received my sos, came asking what's happening. The daddy gave them a good "briefing" after listened to my complained and walked off. Abella accepted our explaination and went off playing again but Clarabelle instead, display her temper over her unsatifaction. She lay herself flat on the floor. This is her trademark. Even Abella knows. Whenever she lay flat on the floor, she is angry with something.
The loving Abella saw moody Clarabelle, came telling me: " Mommy, Clarabelle is sad..." I acknowledge Abella but I have to ignore Clara cos I know she wants to catch my attention. I dont give in either as I want her to learn to accept discipline and explaination. By displaying such attitute on her unsatifaction will not help her any.
After sometime, she realise I dont budge. She stand up mumbling she wants to sleep and tried hopping onto the bicycle. Abella saw, quickly went to assist her. After she got seated, she still displayed a unhappy face then closed her eyes pretending to sleep. Sweet Abella took the front seat and offer to fetch her home...(puzzle? that's their kid's talk) She wants to cheer her up : " Clarabelle we have reached! Are you happy?" Clara finally smile and cheered "Happy!" but very soon she turned moody again. Abella continue to pacify her: " clarabelle dont be sad huh? Be happy ok?" but Clarabelle just dont budge. Dishearted Abella told me : "Mommy, Clarabelle dont want to be happy... she wants to be sad..."
Awwh... Abella is such a love... so sensible with a heart of empathy...
As for Clarabelle, most probably we had to find another approach to correct her character. Maybe by soft approach or reverse psychology, I have to try it out very soon...
Labels: Abella, Clarabelle
posted by wtpgRR at 12/22/2006 03:12:00 PM
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