Wednesday, June 20, 2007

Chicken conscience?

This morning was another usual rushing morning.
Rush and rush and rush...

Just when I stuffed my lost & found handcream into my bag, I saw this. Yes the hubby had stuffed a bot of chicken essence in my bag.

... ... ... *soul-searching*

Ok! I admit that did make me grin a bit... but still, I closed my bag. Got to rush... hurry up chickenchildren!

Last night, hubby & I almost start another round of war...
What happened was, after dinner at my mum place, I had to rush to the supermart to get some grocery before it closed at 10pm while he brought the girls home. When Im done and home around 10pm, Im glad that he had bathed the girls and were reading book together, albeit his face dono why was blacken. Then as usual he went down to his car to pick up the girls' school bag and other stuff like the girls' medicine.


And I resumed my routine... mixed milk, removed the clean laundry from the machine, stuffed more dirty laundry to wash. When I was hoping bath time I can relax, before I can enjoy the tranquility, Abella slide-opened my bath door so hard and complained : "Mommy... Clarabelle say she dont love me..."

While trying to rinse off the foam and persuading abe not to take clara's words so hard and clara to apologise... too late, they just dont budge and a "girl war" was ignited!-_-

"You naughty! NO! You naughty!" shouted both.

open, closed! open, closed! ... ... ... -_-
one wanted my bath room door to be opened and the other wanted it to be closed!


"I called daddy" and clara pretended was calling daddy and self-talked, "Hello, daddy, Im clarabelle. Abella is naughty! *yakky yakky* ok bye bye!" then yelled : "Daddy is coming back!"

"No! " and abe called daddy too and *yakky yakky* ok bye bye! and yelled : "No! Daddy is coming back!" and both actually started to giggle and instantly they made peace!



However... on the other side, another pressure was gradually building up...

tick tock... tick tock... tick tock...


Wow!!! Was 11pm+ and the daddy was not back from carpark yet. Clara was very tire and K.O. the very next moment.

Buzzed the daddy : "Are u coming up soon? Clara had slept, Abe soon, waiting for their medcine leh..."

"okie okie.. coming up now " and even asked abella to wait for him. To keep herself awake, abe requested me to read book with her till...


" Mommy... closed the book... "
" Why? Are u tire already? You want to sleep? "
" Yes... Z Z Z z z z ..."

tick tock... tick tock... tick tock...



haize... the hse so messy...the cloth are piling up... hv to iron tml working cloth... pack their school bag... sterilised the bottle...

tick tock... tick tock... tick tock...

As the clock clicked, my anger clicked too!

Buzzed the hubby again : " Are you having some urgent matters below... "
"Im in the lift, coming up now!"

So when the door opened...
me: " Are you having some urgent matters below huh?"
man: "Hmm... sort of lah..."
me: " So what is the urgent things that had make u to compromis the girls medicine time and breaking yor promise wif Abe and now that you had to disturn their sleep inorder tgive them medicine? "
man: " I happen to met A and I recall an work issue, need his assistant, so we talk awhile..."

I really cannot view his point of urgent... Agrrh!
me: " But you have his contact right? You can call him tml to talk abt it... furthermore is there any urgent issue to follow up immediately after the discussion? So tml still can discuss right? But instead you girls are waiting for your medicine and now they have slept!"
man :" Then why are you talking so much now? Should be feeding them medicine instead! "

Agrrh! This man never feel apologetic!
me: " Since they had slept, what's the diff to feed them later?!! But I definately want to clarify this with you, you no sense of piority! "

Instead of feeling apology, the man do the ostrich, that is avoiding my question and ignored me and that annoyed me most!

He wanted to walk away but I blocked him... and we struggle for sometime till he finally broke into laugh... " Im sorry but your way of blocking me... very funny... woahahaha... "
@:(

me: " Why you always like that?! No sense of piority... If is really important, you can bring up the medicine first then you can go, talk as long as u like... "
man : " em... dont quite like it..."
me: "you always claimed sorry to have disturb the girls when everytime they waited your medicine till sleep.... but you never make effort to prevent it... I feel that you are not sincere at all... you always say but never do... that is worst than dont say... "

The man keep quite again... Haize forget it... nothing seem can knock into his head...
man : " sorry lah... "
me : " sorry means dont do it again..."
man : " sorry means dont do it again... "

haize... this is the dono how many dont do it again for him already...

人生苦短, why am I stuck with this man, worsen my misery :( ...

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5 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

I just read a short story ytd that gave me a sort of enlightenment regarding r/s between husband and wife. Want to blog about it but finding it hard to put it down in words.

June 22, 2007 7:16 PM  
Blogger asiangard said...

Hi, I'm new to your blog!
I understand why you were mad! I get mad at hubby too, sometimes he likes to stay out late and play MJ with his friends, and I am stuck at home lonely and trying to put four kids to bed!!

June 24, 2007 5:37 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i think i can relate quite well to how you feel.

My man also like that.....

Think problem is we cannot see eye to eye....our priorities are different. These days, learnt to close both eyes when it comes to all these indifference, at least my white hair also lesser....

Cheer up dear.... :)

June 25, 2007 12:17 PM  
Blogger wtpgRR said...

SS, I know what u mean... take ur time... i can wait... kekeke

Hi AG, Thanks for popping in...
I really can feel ur miserable... FOUR kids!

Thanks Jan... Im learning to, so so nowaday, Im pretty alright... :)

June 26, 2007 6:36 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my man is not like urs, but one thing similar, they both had no sense of priority when it comes to kids.

Like you, i think medicine time s more impt than any other nonsense that can be discussed over the phone...duno y they just like to talk face to face..grr...

Anyway, its over and the part of abe and clara fighting seems so funny! Juz like hubby and ethyl fighting to close the door when i am bathing...keke

June 27, 2007 2:19 PM  

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