Thursday, February 01, 2007

Update part 2...

See what I mean?! This morning is Clarabelle's turns having diarrhoea... but that little girl felt so blessful... "Mommy, Clarabelle can take the diarrheoa medicine huh? Clarabelle got diarrheoa... "

-_-

Anyway I still let her go to school, as she has no fever... hopefully after the last watery poo-poo at home, her stomache will be cleared.

"mommy, is pass motion..." " Oh.. you've learned the word, pass motion... who taught u that?" " 张老师 say poo-poo is pass motion..."

SS, I still have part 2. I have not finish yet :p They are not as good as you thought, that why I say " Generally, I would consider them adapting well..." but there are certain area where they are still struggling...

The teacher had relate to us that most of the time my two girls, esp Abella couldnt enjoy siesta. Everytime they will want the teacher to hold their hands or pat them to nap. Then when they have dose off and the teacher walk off, they are very sensitive, wake up immediately and refuse to let go the teacher. So Abella rather dont sleep. Most probably by then siesta time is over. No wonder they are always so tire & sleepy when we fetch them.

I was thinking most probably they feel very daunting to sleep with unfamiliar people. Thought they may have known some of them but afterall, for 33 months, they only sleep with daddy, mummy, ma ma & the most ah yi only.

So I thought maybe let them bring a toy from home, who they will feel secured then.

Girls, this afternoon you have elephant accompany. So dont worry and take a good nap huh? :) If you nap well, this evening not tire-sleepy-cranky, mommy will bring you to plaza, k ;) Promised :)

Beside the siesta case, every morning they will sure wake up crying, asking me today going to school? Then when I tell them yes, they will start whining... till the daddy come and warn them in a very stern voice, "Happy or not, you have to go to school! You want to choose happily go to school, afterwork daddy mummy will come n fetch you or you want to continue crying, making yourself tire, daddy mummy angry but still need to go to school...."

Sometimes, they are very sensible, stop whinning immediately, happily get themself ready for school... but when time they are not... *sigh*

Beside crying in the morning, in the middle of the night, they will wake up crying then climb onto our bed, one squeezing my left the other the right, sandwiched me in between. It was so squeezy! I went to sleep on their mattress instead but immediately they sense my absense, whine and next moment squeeze with me again. I have no choice but to suit them then as I donwan them to irritate the daddy then starts another rounds of lecturing... Im not objecting the daddy's disciplinary but I dont wish to be at that late hour...

I not sure Im doing this right but definately they are taking advantage of me. Even my mum say that. She say when I not home yet, they were very well behave, finish dinner, playing themself. But when I come back, they'll wreck havoc, want me carry, complained to me about each other, starts pushing each other... -_-

The daddy say that too... In fact for the passed morning, he has been droping me at the bus stop then send the children to school himself. In the evening, pick them up, mix milk for them & give them snack then fetch me... everything was smooth sailing till they reach my office... they two will start to snatch for me and create a chaotic in the car... -_-

Then there was a day, after so long I didnt pick them up from school, I decided to finish work early and pick them up. They were jumping with joy to see me in school. But the daddy say I came to wreck havoc. They use to carry their own bag, change their own shoe and walk on their own. But now, we have to change their shoe, carry their bag and carry them! He gave me a "sp" mother look... *eyes rolling*

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

They're still young lah...and one month into school only. Considered quite good already. They need a bit more time to be completely at ease. My boy took a much longer time!

And what you say about them taking advantage of you is true. My boy is the same. They'll take advantage of mummy's love for them!

February 02, 2007 2:45 AM  
Blogger Vyvy said...

the crying part is just a phase :) I came through it. I guess you will soon.

As for the bullying part, I think it happens in most family. For us when we at home, Dec will be extremely naughty. When he's alone with his grandma, grandma claim that he is very good boy.

February 02, 2007 2:47 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

ohhhh....so clever leh....

one month into school only...this is good progress liao lor!

February 05, 2007 1:25 PM  
Blogger wtpgRR said...

thks... Im not alone... but the crying part can really stress me up man :(

February 05, 2007 6:56 PM  

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